{"id":36609,"date":"2023-03-03T20:27:27","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T19:27:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/?p=36609"},"modified":"2026-05-16T17:30:58","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T15:30:58","slug":"ecoute-et-partage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/en\/2023\/03\/03\/ecoute-et-partage\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9coute et partage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"is-style-lead has-sm-light-secondary-background-color has-background\">\u00c9coute, dialogue, discernement, prise de d\u00e9cision, relecture&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Au moment de la cr\u00e9ation de Saint-Merry Hors-les-Murs, \u00e9tait n\u00e9 un groupe <em>\u00c9coute et dialogue<\/em>, qui avait notamment propos\u00e9 une <em>Petite \u00e9cole autour de l\u2019\u00c9vangile de Marc<\/em> en visioconf\u00e9rence hebdomadaire tout l\u2019\u00e9t\u00e9, et travaill\u00e9 \u00e0 une charte de communication non-violente pour notre communaut\u00e9.<br>Ce groupe d\u2019une douzaine de personnes, en sommeil toute l\u2019ann\u00e9e derni\u00e8re, rena\u00eet sous la forme d\u2019une <em>\u00c9quipe \u00c9coute et Partage<\/em>, car certains ont souhait\u00e9 retrouver des moments et des lieux qui permettent ces partages en confiance et dans le respect r\u00e9ciproque&nbsp;: tout ce qui y est dit reste entre nous&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery aligncenter has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"72\" height=\"72\" data-id=\"36617\" data-src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/s1.png?resize=72%2C72&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"S1\" class=\"wp-image-36617 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/s1.png?w=72&amp;ssl=1 72w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/s1.png?resize=12%2C12&amp;ssl=1 12w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/s1.png?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 72px) 100vw, 72px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 72px; 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aboutit \u00e0 l\u2019ouverture de la parole, \u00e0 l\u2019interaction des personnes, <br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0au partage consensuel des opinions, des d\u00e9cisions, des choix\u00a0;<br>&#8211; se d\u00e9cline en synodalit\u00e9, coll\u00e9gialit\u00e9, subsidiarit\u00e9, coresponsabilit\u00e9, accueil, etc.\u00a0;<br>&#8211; et permet finalement d\u2019atteindre le but\u00a0: r\u00e9aliser collectivement un projet et s\u2019accueillir en v\u00e9rit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-sm-color-primary-color has-text-color\"><strong>Des projets&nbsp;? Tout cela se d\u00e9sire, se vit, et m\u00eame s\u2019apprend&nbsp;!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; actions et initiatives concr\u00e8tes \u00e0 proposer \u00e0 la communaut\u00e9 et\/ou \u00e0 organiser avec\/pour elle <br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0(m\u00e9thodologie du travail en groupe et aide \u00e0 l\u2019organisation &#8211; style Charles Rodjman, <br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Fran\u00e7oise Keller, non-violence, Carl Rogers etc.)\u00a0;<br>&#8211; ateliers du type de la Petite <em>\u00c9cole<\/em>\u00a0;<br>&#8211; temps de formation et ateliers divers o\u00f9 on exp\u00e9rimente personnellement les bienfaits <br>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0de cette \u00e9coute qui va jusqu\u2019\u00e0 la d\u00e9cision\u00a0;<br>&#8211; bo\u00eete \u00e0 outils avec moyens de se former\u00a0: fiches techniques, textes, r\u00e9f\u00e9rences&#8230;\u00a0;<br>&#8211; r\u00e9flexion communautaire sur la question des \u00ab\u00a0crises\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0;<br>&#8211; m\u00e9diateurs internes, facilitateurs, ressources internes ou externes, \u00e0 la demande, au cas par cas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Apprenons \u00e0 nous parler et \u00e0 \u00e9changer en profondeur, <br>dans le respect et le partage. \u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">Pour rencontrer l\u2019\u00e9quipe, t\u00e9l\u00e9phonez \u00e0 notre Accueil<strong> <\/strong>09 72 12 04 96\u00a0(appel gratuit)<br>ou \u00e9crivez \u00e0 Marguerite ou Jean-Louis : <a href=\"mailto:groupe-ecoute-dialogue@saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\">groupe-ecoute-dialogue@saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"cats\"><span class=\"cats__title\">Categories<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/saintmerry-hors-les-murs.com\/en\/category\/vie-des-groupes\/ecoute-dialogue\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Ecoute &amp; 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